An agonising wait (or weight)...

So, as we said, we went back to the drawing board and realised that there was another photographer that we loved - Greymatter! In fact, he (the only one) got a VDY (Very Definitely Yes) when we first started looking for wedding photographers. But, of course, since he is so good at what he does, he was already sus'd by another couple; so now, we're waiting, waiting for him to come back to us and let us know if they still want him or not.

I spoke to him last week telling him of our intentions to 'book' him for the day and we've emailed him again on Tuesday to ask how things were. We still haven't heard. I am still keeping my fingers crossed. How long is too long?

At the moment, we've found another who is still available (yes, unbelievable given that I seem to be so worried about finding the right one but since we've been in touch, FOUR other couples have enquired about his services!). I like his unobstrusive style of capturing the bride and groom in their moments together, it reminds me a lot of Robert Doisneau, my favourite photographer. I am quite happy to have him on the day instead, although i am a little concerned over the emphasis on B&W pictures but i am sure that can be discussed.

So, perhaps the issue isn't that we haven't heard from greymatter; perhaps the issue is that i am torn apart between the two. I like both a lot, what am i to do? What's David's thoughts on this...well, i think the fence is starting t o hurt his butt really.